Sometimes I shoot myself in the foot because I try to hold on to people whose season has long expired in my life.

I make excuses for people.. and then I hear in my language ‘oh that’s just how that person is.

And yet I call bullshit.

The one distinction that I’m still learning to embrace without resistance is people are doing the best they can with what they know. I resist it because I see a lot of people, especially in the work, that does know better pretend they don’t.

So today I’m canceling the relationships in my life that are only making withdrawals.

Our boundaries are the aftermath, the energetic result of how we practice our values in every moment.

The transitions are part of life and yet we are the ones training people how to treat us. We’re all meant to move on with our lives and live in the way that most fulfills us. Let’s not be an opportunist and only show up when the moment is convenient.

If you have takers in your life, send them luv and move on to more expansive spaces where reciprocating value is the norm.. and then give. Share your light. We all have infinite value to offer. And we can still luv these amazing teachers from afar.